But you mentioned like you know obviously building a business in a more sustainable way or doing something income but I think what sort of people go into trading because I feel like those who turn to trading I guess are a mix of different people some who are really ambitious already like you know they are already very smart, got a career but actually want to do stuff on the side and then there’s others who think it’s a get rich quick scheme right and what other people have you found.
Yeah there’s people that go into trading, there’s people that tend to do well in trading and from working with quite a lot of traders now we’ve found that people go into it either to make a lot of money quickly which you know is kind of true, you can make a lot of money but you can lose a lot of money just like poker you know it’s the same thing.
Or they go into it because they want to take control of their own financial future so they don’t want to rely on other people managing their money which is great.
And the ones that usually do well first are process oriented thinkers so a lot of military, a lot of engineers, people like that who just take orders and know that if you follow a process you get an inevitable outcome.
And it’s like a plan driven, process oriented thinker who does well because it’s not so much focused on the million pound account, it’s just if I just get 2% per week and then 2% per week and then that’s 2% of a million account or 2% of a 10 million account, it doesn’t matter, it’s just if I just do that it will work.
And those people tend to really do well, they’re the ones that do the best.
I love that because I’ve been talking a lot about that recently just in general with business and mindset and I think that process oriented approaches are way more sustainable than results oriented approaches.
And I think that a lot of social media content is so focused on the results, it’s like do this and you’ll get X, it’s like put in X and you’ll get Y and if you don’t get it you’re set up for failure and you just feel depressed and it’s not great.
And the same as in poker right, I’m very process oriented with learning poker because if you go results oriented you get lucky, you think you’re good and I think that’s the problem with a lot of gamblers right, they do one hand, they’ll play it badly, they get lucky but I won that so I’m going to play it that way every time, that’s not how it works.
And winning is just as bad as losing on the first right, probably worse because they keep playing and they end up losing more.
They’re so cocky you can’t tell them that they’re wrong and they believe it exactly and that’s because they’re thinking about results.
Whereas if you do the process it might suck if you get lucky or variance goes not in your favour but if you’re doing the right thing over time you will end up with better results over time.
And that’s the problem, it is a long-term thing and I think that people don’t see the long-term thing.
And you mentioned getting rich quick, surely those are the people who go into it thinking I’m going to make money really quickly, surely they’re more likely to fail because if you go in there with that mindset you’re not going to do the right thing, you’re going to try and find shortcuts surely.
Yeah there’s so many ironies in the whole approach to trading really.
There was a study done in India in the southern, there was like 56 cities that they did this study in Southern India and they tested the farmers IQ and the farmer’s IQ when there was a drought and there was low trade and the market wasn’t booming and they were kind of struggling for survival, their IQ dropped by up to 30 points.
And then when the trade was good and everything was going well, assumingly it raised up to 30 points.
And what they found was when you are closer to poverty your ability to make logical decisions is deteriorated.
So when people want to learn to trade because they can’t afford to pay their bills, that very approach is what’s going to stop them from learning to trade and it’s flawed.
And I have to deal with that on a daily basis, I tell more people not to trade than you should try and that’s exactly the reason why.
That is exactly that I said earlier that I would never play poker professionally because it would just affect your decision making. And I always find that when I’ve watched like game shows in the past and I think like back when I was a kid I watch like Who Wants To Be A Millionaire or something, the ones who got the million pounds were the ones who were already rich. They don’t care, they just answer the question. They don’t care.
But everyone else is going oh my god if I lose that amount of money and then all that fear and they say something stupid or and to a decision making. And it just shows that you the more pressure you put yourself under the less likely you are to make good decisions.
And so I don’t understand anyone who goes into something like trading or poker with that sort of mindset like I need to make money because I just don’t think you’re going to make that much money because of how it’s glamorized on you know the one-sided truth you see on the internet.
So how do you tackle this? Because it is, and that’s my whole premise of No Bullshit Talks and why I talk about no bullshit entrepreneurship because I’m sick of the equivalent in my industry where it’s like you’re on the beach in Bali and you’ve got your laptop and everything’s fine, you wake up whenever you want, you do a bit of yoga and you sip your matcha tea, that’s what it’s glamorized as.
And you work your four hour week and go wherever you want you just have passive income and that’s just how easy business is. In my industry I see this every day and I’m so tired of it. I’m trying to talk about what life is really like as an entrepreneur and actually it’s a struggle, it’s really hard but it’s also amazing otherwise none of us would do it, right?
We all love it but there are things that yo need to do and you have to be prepared to put in the work.
So how are you trying to fight this and put the real truth out there, what is the truth of trading?
Yeah for me it’s been a real long game. I could have made a killing out of trading education because I could have just sold the dream, I would have got rich, there’s a lot of people that have made a lot of money and then they got millions of subscriber and all the rest of it just from selling the Lambos and all the rest of it.
I didn’t need the money so I’ve played a much longer game and in doing so I’ve built a loyal following, no negative reviews, no nothing. And that to me is a much better way, leading by example is a much more fulfilling way to live and I can look my kids in the eye and they’re proud of me and all of that stuff that matters to me.
And I don’t think it does to a lot of these kinds of people. How do I approach?
I just try and educate people that there’s two sides of everything.
Like you mentioned business, most people who start a business for a better lifestyle end up with a worse lifestyle than they would have if they just kept their job, that’s the truth. And if you really want to go into it the people that do struggle are the people that go into it because they look up to the entrepreneur.
It’s okay to not be an entrepreneur, it’s okay to be in a job as long as you can afford the things that inspire you to live the life you want for the short time year, that’s all that really matters. That really is all that matters.
So, it’s seeing both sides when you think you know I’ve just done a I’ve just kind of shred quite a lot of weight and you know I’ve got some photos of me now if I put that up online people think oh look I’m not getting those results you know I don’t have a sixpack I should I’m a failure actually it’s taken me like two years you know it doesn’t take 6 weeks and what they tell you online and there’s always another side there’s always downsides and drawbacks of any Journey that you’re going to to go on.
And I think the more you can see that from day one, the more grounded you are and the more sustainable your journey will be.
So I just try and tell people that to try to see both sides, see the good and the bad the bad and the good at every step.
I love the example you gave because I think the Wai loss industry is another one of those ones which is full of that and I did I’ve got another podcast which is like a just an audio one that’s just me basically rumbling into the mic it’s called sniffing out the bullshit for that exact thing and I did want on overnight success because of that reason that everyone sees all these overnight successes and like I wish I could do that why can’t I do that and it talks about how people like seem that they overnight successes like Mr. Beast the classic one right everyone talks about him and how he’s suddenly the biggest YouTube creator overnight and I’m like he basically 10 years with no one liking his stuff and that’s why I think he totally deserves everything has got because who has that grit to go for 10 years and no one even watches a single video I hear people all the time like crying after two videos going no one like my post and they quit so if you’re doing it for 10 years you deserve every fame of fortune that you’re going to get from that because it most people don’t have that will power.
And it’s the same thing like same principle where he’s waking up wanting to do that the time will come and if you’re waking up looking at likes on your video that’s a massive problem you’re not doing because you want to do it you wanted to do it to please someone.
Yeah.
Which is a totally wrong way to go into anything and with the trading example I think if you wake up and you’re genuinely interested in it and you’re fascinated by the markets and you love process oriented trading systems and you know the numbers that’s great you’re going to do well eventually it’s just like anything but if you’re going into it thinking that you know Guru online got rich using a Lamboo.
I’m not I’m not yet. That’s not the right way to go into it you shouldn’t even be thinking about him or her.
It’s that whole intrinsic versus extrinsic motivation right. Extrinsic is only going to last you a certain amount of time. It’s the same with jobs and they talk about employees and why they feel despondent in a job. If you’re only motivated by the money then you’re not going to do a good job. But if you actually care about it and you have that intrinsic motivation to actually want to do it and do it well then it’s going to last a lot longer.
And the same reason for this podcast take for example. It doesn’t make me money, it’s not something as a revenue driver. Maybe someday it will be. But I need to build up time, I need to show that I’ve got an audience, I need to then get brands to sponsor it. That’s a long time coming, I’m not even thinking about that now. I’m doing it because I love these conversations, I love creating content, I love having great conversations with other entrepreneurs and helping put that out there to help other people.
I think for me it doesn’t matter how much time and energy and the mistakes and screw ups that I make generally, it’s all part of the learning process and I love doing it. And I think absolutely that will then keep going. Whereas I know people who start podcasts thinking I’m going to make money and get all these big sponsorships and they’ll just give up after a few episodes.
You can’t, when you do the approach you’re doing you can’t not make money eventually because people come to you, they want to be part of what you’re doing because you’re inspiring, because you haven’t got that desperation energy that a lot of people have.
But when you mention the jobs, I think even that there’s such a tarnish on 9 to 5. Anyone with a job is feeling depressed because they’re in a 9 to 5 when there’s nothing wrong. Like there’s nothing wrong with it.
I don’t know why entrepreneurship is glamorized so much for that reason.
Part of what you were saying earlier, I was thinking do you know how many times I go thinking I’ll go back and get a job. Why don’t I just go get a job? And my partner says it to me all the time because he sees how stressed I can get over work. He’s like you could just walk into any company and demand a job with your experience.
And I’m like no I can’t. And he’s like yes you can, think about it, you’ve got all these years of experience behind you, go get a normal job, it would just be so much easier. And I’m like no I love what I do. And it’s like if you’re an entrepreneur you can’t go and do that.
But part of me thinks it is so much easier. I’m not ashamed to do it, there never was. And I’d get way more salary that’s consistent and a lot less stress. So I don’t see any problem with that, I think it’s great to have a job and I don’t know why there is this tarnish on it now.
And kids or younger people who do try and be entrepreneurs, if they haven’t got overnight results then they’re like ah this is not for me. And then it’s like I’m the problem. And I think we just need more education on what the journey is actually like.
And it’s very difficult because everyone’s showing the good times. I just posted on Instagram a little scan of the Four Seasons for you. I didn’t take a scan of when I was on the toilet, you know. It’s just the way it is.
And I think it’s important to raise awareness which is why this podcast is so great.
And that’s what I tried to do. And to be fair I need to post more stuff of the Four Seasons, I’m here all the time but I never do.
But that’s a good point actually, maybe I show too much of the bad stuff at least to mix it a little bit so that people listen to me. Because if they don’t see the good stuff then maybe they won’t listen.
Yeah I think you need both. It’s good to have an inspiration of what you can have but then show the contrast of what it takes to get there. And I think that’s kind of what I’ve tried to do online.
Make sure I balance it out.
But I do want to talk more about the trading then, like who…