Like how did you even get clients.
How did you get people to believe in you.
That’s what I wanna know.
So I was doing that for free at the time just to cover yay.
Again didn’t realize I could charge for it thanks.
And really it was just showing up confidently with the belief that hey this person probably has a problem and I can help them.
This particular lady who run the charity shop had actually reached out to the university so that’s how I end up getting in contact with her and then one thing led to another on the two more entrepreneurs that I helped throughout my time at university as well but that was like the big one that really stood out to me the most.
So yeah I don’t know I just showed up and I made myself useful and we’d have really great conversations about about how to jump up for football managing her team as well which was really challenging for her.
And then we saved her I saved her over 2000 pounds worth of costs and that it was just it was so fun.
I think even just showing a bit of value allowed her to trust me more and more every week and yeah.
Absolutely.
You just hit the nail on the head of value I think that’s that’s one of the key key things in business right.
You have to show someone value for what you do like with whether you’re charging 10 pounds will or thousand pounds an hour.
You have to show value.
Like if people just sort of thousand times that I was not going to be worth it but if you’re making them like you know millions and millions of pounds extra obviously the values there.
And and that’s it.
And I think it’s incredible that you started off doing that for free and it shows the determination and obviously built up the respect.
But again even straight out of university like landing a job in McKinsey incredible but you know you’re still you’re still going to have barriers for people.
I will trust in you I feel like you’re still young you know you look younger than you are you are also female and how and like you know helping out big corporates.
There are still lots of bad out there who are like like honestly they don’t they will just would not respect you.
I like how do you gain that respect from all those big guys because I feel like you know the moment you do you’re in there.
That’s what’s also brilliant.
You prove to them that you can do this and you know what you’re talking about then they respect you and you’ve got all the respect you one but getting that far is difficult and I know lots of women who are in our corporate male-dominated environment and they just can’t do that.
And they are having this daily struggle and they just don’t feel like they heard or they don’t feel like they’re respected.
Like how do you deal with that.
How do you get to the point where like men just respect you and be like right this is awesome.
So I’ve been so hard because I definitely remember I think it was like week three maybe four of being a Mackenzie and I was in recent meeting I’d actually walked into the wrong meeting dang it.
Stop it’s like an old boys club.
Whereas but be one of the guys said how have you been working here for and over the it was literally like three or four weeks not long tell him exactly how long long last two weeks of training.
So basically like one or two yeah pretty much.
So yeah I feel you on that I definitely came up right against that within the first month and huge questioning over whether what I could say or do will be of any value.
But here’s the thing going through that process really allowed me to adopt the classic consultant way of speaking which is where you say things really confidently even though you might not be 100% sure.
And then you go and check the data after you’ve had the conversation.
And if you’re wrong you then go and correct yourself later.
But whatever you say say incredibly confidently and this is where my drama GCSE came in really really useful.
Acting your way through life basically.
So what just told me your strategy and your advice to everyone is fake it till you make it so you’re pretty.
But sometimes you just gotta keep like that a straight face.
As yeah I do like that I do like but it’s true.
Everything is you do is done better with confidence.
Anyway that’s it like I feel like you bring out the best in yourself if you do it with confidence you say it with confidence people are more likely to believe you.
But like okay so all I’m serious though.
Insides your consultancy I’m presuming you’re not telling everyone that you have to fake it till you make it walk me through what you actually did it with your clients and how you help people.
And I was going to say women but you’re not just obviously focusing on women but you do help so many women exact talk about money because it’s not just a bit it’s female but it’s especially why.
Why do women struggle and find it so uncomfortable talking about money.
I know I do.
I know that I’ve had a very just effort in my business to bring up money straight away.
I had and I feel guilty telling them how much I charge or and then if they ask for discount I’m always feeling like I’m obliged to go out that discount.
Why should I do that like I mean I shouldn’t do that.
And I feel like most men maybe I maybe I’m generalizing but I do feel like most men are just like no that’s how much we charge you don’t like it walk away.
And I just and I like you said you just compliment me like I’m making a multi six-figure sum and I’m on my way to 7 and I’m just like that’s awesome.
Like I’m not there yet I’d love to be there like to make my first million I’d be very happy to do that and you know most wouldn’t be right why is she talking about that and maybe that he says allergen.
Look it’s a taboo subject for a lot of people but it’s so necessary if you want to achieve your goals and you have to vocalize those those aspirations and so I want to hear how you help women do that and and I’m not just women like I said you help people do that and and what you do through your day-to-day.
There it’s like a chatter okay.
So I love people up that this is a bit of an issue with women because you’re right.
And by the way if anybody’s listening to this and they’ve just judged me or for talking about money so openly I want that person’s listing the right now to really tune into the thoughts that just gone through your head because that’s telling you so much about your relationship with money and the money you have in your bank account is simply a sign of what’s going on inside your head.
So change what’s going on inside your head on the bank account will change.
So just keep thinking million pounds meaning it pops it manifested come on but you can’t go around judging people talking about money and actually desire to want to make money at the same time.
You’re just not in congruence with yourself and it.
Yeah but go back to the actual question.